{"id":7692,"date":"2016-08-06T10:00:00","date_gmt":"2016-08-06T15:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/booksyalove.com\/?p=7692"},"modified":"2016-08-01T21:18:47","modified_gmt":"2016-08-02T02:18:47","slug":"how-to-be-you-by-jeffrey-marsh-book-review-life-on-your-terms-as-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/booksyalove.com\/?p=7692","title":{"rendered":"How to Be You, by Jeffrey Marsh (book review) &#8211; life on your terms, as YOU"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"7827\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/booksyalove.com\/?attachment_id=7827\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/booksyalove.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/How-to-Be-You.jpg?fit=467%2C700&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"467,700\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/booksyalove.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/How-to-Be-You.jpg?fit=467%2C700&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/booksyalove.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/How-to-Be-You-201x300.jpg?resize=201%2C300\" alt=\"book cover of How to Be You by Jeffrey Marsh published by Tarcher Perigee  | recommended on BooksYALove.com\" width=\"201\" height=\"300\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-7827\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/booksyalove.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/How-to-Be-You.jpg?resize=201%2C300&amp;ssl=1 201w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/booksyalove.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/08\/How-to-Be-You.jpg?w=467&amp;ssl=1 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 201px) 100vw, 201px\" \/>Stereotypes need not limit you,<br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/melinda-parrish\/the-myth-of-perfection_b_9479814.html\" target=\"_blank\">perfection is a myth<\/a>,<br \/>\nlearning to respect and love yourself is priority #1!<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Growing up fabulous in a small farming town&#8221; wasn&#8217;t easy for Jeffrey, but they learned to listen closely to the voice inside, become more confident, and stand up publicly as anti-bullying champion, calling on others to do the same. <\/p>\n<p>Just published on Tuesday (2 August 2016), <em>How to Be You<\/em> is a question-asking, color-outside-the-lines, story-sharing personal journey that can help you &#8220;stop trying to be someone else and start living your life&#8221; as the subtitle states. <\/p>\n<p>Be sure to visit the publisher&#8217;s website <a href=\"http:\/\/www.penguinrandomhouse.com\/books\/536846\/how-to-be-you-by-jeffrey-marsh\/9780143110125\/#\" target=\"_blank\">here<\/a> to read an excerpt opening the book and experience Jeffrey&#8217;s writing style and backstory.<\/p>\n<p>What is holding you back from expressing your true self?<br \/>\n**kmm<\/p>\n<p><strong>Book info<\/strong>:\u00a0How to Be You \/ Jeffrey Marsh. Tarcher Perigee, 2016. [<a href=\"http:\/\/www.jeffreymarsh.com\/howtobeyou\" target=\"_blank\">author site<\/a>]\u00a0 [<a href=\"http:\/\/www.penguinrandomhouse.com\/books\/536846\/how-to-be-you-by-jeffrey-marsh\/9780143110125\/#\" target=\"_blank\">publisher site<\/a>]\u00a0 Review copy and cover image courtesy of the publisher.<\/p>\n<p><strong>My book talk<\/strong>: Reject perfectionism and others&#8217; expectations as you learn <em>How to Be You<\/em> in this engaging journey of self-discovery and self-connection.<\/p>\n<p>Jeffrey embraces gender-neutral pronouns, created the #NoTimeToHateMyself and #DontSayThatsSoGay online conversations, and revels in sharing stories of hero\/ines who transcended race, age, and other stereotypes.<\/p>\n<p>Discover more about owning your own emotions, letting go of always being in control, and getting used to not knowing everything with this book of stories, writing prompts, fill-in charts and coloring vignettes. Especially useful: reframing the excuses you make to avoid new possibilities as positive qualities in your personality.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Stereotypes need not limit you, perfection is a myth, learning to respect and love yourself is priority #1! &#8220;Growing up fabulous in a small farming town&#8221; wasn&#8217;t easy for Jeffrey, but they learned to listen closely to the voice inside, become more confident, and stand up publicly as anti-bullying champion, calling on others to do [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[157,23],"tags":[22,7,4,11,20,5,16,18,43,107,187,49,15,9,21,35,33,3,8],"class_list":["post-7692","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-biography","category-nonfiction","tag-behavior","tag-beliefs","tag-belonging","tag-communication","tag-conflict","tag-coping","tag-determination","tag-family","tag-growing-up","tag-homosexuality","tag-lgbtq","tag-memories","tag-relationships","tag-school","tag-self-image","tag-surprises","tag-survival","tag-teens","tag-us-author"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/booksyalove.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7692","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/booksyalove.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/booksyalove.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/booksyalove.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/booksyalove.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=7692"}],"version-history":[{"count":12,"href":"https:\/\/booksyalove.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7692\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7837,"href":"https:\/\/booksyalove.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7692\/revisions\/7837"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/booksyalove.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=7692"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/booksyalove.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=7692"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/booksyalove.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=7692"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}