{"id":9097,"date":"2018-01-16T10:00:00","date_gmt":"2018-01-16T16:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/booksyalove.com\/?p=9097"},"modified":"2018-01-06T10:44:35","modified_gmt":"2018-01-06T16:44:35","slug":"chaos-of-standing-still-grief-numbed-as-life-moves-on-by-jessica-brody-book-review","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/booksyalove.com\/?p=9097","title":{"rendered":"Chaos of Standing Still, grief-numbed as life moves on, by Jessica Brody (book review)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"9101\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/booksyalove.com\/?attachment_id=9101\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/booksyalove.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/chaos-of-standing-still-9781481499187_hr.jpg?fit=1399%2C2114&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"1399,2114\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"chaos-of-standing-still-9781481499187_hr\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/booksyalove.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/chaos-of-standing-still-9781481499187_hr.jpg?fit=678%2C1024&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/booksyalove.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/chaos-of-standing-still-9781481499187_hr.jpg?resize=199%2C300&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"book cover of The Chaos of Standing Still by Jessica Brody, published by Simon Pulse | recommended on BooksYALove.com\" width=\"199\" height=\"300\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-9101\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/booksyalove.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/chaos-of-standing-still-9781481499187_hr.jpg?resize=199%2C300&amp;ssl=1 199w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/booksyalove.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/chaos-of-standing-still-9781481499187_hr.jpg?resize=678%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 678w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/booksyalove.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/chaos-of-standing-still-9781481499187_hr.jpg?w=1399&amp;ssl=1 1399w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 199px) 100vw, 199px\" \/>&#8220;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.giftfromwithin.org\/html\/Guilt-Following-Traumatic-Events.html\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Survivor&#8217;s guilt<\/a>&#8221;<br \/>\nConstantly seeking answers on her phone &#8211;<br \/>\nWill Ryn stay stuck on what happened last year forever?<\/p>\n<p>A year ago, a month ago, even a day ago, Ryn couldn&#8217;t have imagined that she&#8217;d be smiling (okay, be made to smile by guy who&#8217;s also hiding pain) on the anniversary of such trauma.<\/p>\n<p>How do two teens stranded in an airport by New Year&#8217;s Eve blizzard make one another&#8217;s lives better in such a short time? Read the first chapter <a href=\"http:\/\/www.simonandschuster.com\/books\/The-Chaos-of-Standing-Still\/Jessica-Brody\/9781481499187\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">here<\/a> free (courtesy of publisher) as Ryn and Xander meet, very much by accident.<\/p>\n<p>Advice on moving on after stunning events?<br \/>\n**kmm<\/p>\n<p><strong>Book info<\/strong>:\u00a0The Chaos of Standing Still \/ Jessica Brody. Simon Pulse, 2017. [<a href=\"http:\/\/www.jessicabrody.com\/about-jessica\/biography\/\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">author site<\/a>]\u00a0 [<a href=\"http:\/\/www.simonandschuster.com\/books\/The-Chaos-of-Standing-Still\/Jessica-Brody\/9781481499187\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">publisher site<\/a>]\u00a0 Review copy and cover image courtesy of the publisher.<\/p>\n<p><strong>My book talk<\/strong>: Stranded in an airport on New Year&#8217;s Eve, she worries for the millionth time about that unread text message from her best friend, but Ryn can&#8217;t open it, can&#8217;t move past losing Lottie 364 days ago, doesn&#8217;t want to be alone or with anyone for that terrible anniversary. Xander would rather be blizzard-bound in the Denver airport than be with his famous child-expert parents or stay at the faraway school where they sent him. <\/p>\n<p>Maybe not so random that Ryn and Xander get their identical Dr. Who phones mixed up. Or that he&#8217;s the first person she really begins to tell about how lovely, zany Lottie made Ryn&#8217;s boring, predictable life so much more. Or that she is the one person who might see Xander for himself instead of as a biracial extension of his celebrity parents.<\/p>\n<p>That flight attendant looks just like Lottie, grown-up&#8230; the last career wish of her ever-changing list.<\/p>\n<p>Ryn&#8217;s parents moved to different cities after the divorce&#8230;like leaving Portland would erase tragedy.<\/p>\n<p>When the runways are cleared for departure, what future will Ryn and Xander be flying toward?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;Survivor&#8217;s guilt&#8221; Constantly seeking answers on her phone &#8211; Will Ryn stay stuck on what happened last year forever? 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