{"id":9216,"date":"2018-02-06T10:00:00","date_gmt":"2018-02-06T16:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/booksyalove.com\/?p=9216"},"modified":"2018-02-06T09:57:43","modified_gmt":"2018-02-06T15:57:43","slug":"her-parents-dreams-or-hers-american-panda-by-gloria-chao-book-review","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/booksyalove.com\/?p=9216","title":{"rendered":"Her parents’ dreams or hers? American Panda, by Gloria Chao (book review)"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"bookGraduate from best college<\/a> for prestigious career,
\nMarry the right person, have many sons…
\nwhy is everything already set in stone?<\/p>\n

Mei’s parents don’t understand that she wants some traditions of Taiwan and some of America, that she will survive if she doesn’t follow their exacting standards. But what if they disown her, as they cut off all contact with her brother?<\/p>\n

Read the first chapter here<\/a> for free (thank you, Bustle!) to get into Mei’s world, the world of her demanding parents that will stifle her own dreams.<\/p>\n

When to break free of the “correct” path?
\n**kmm<\/p>\n

Book info<\/strong>:\u00a0American Panda \/ Gloria Chao. Simon Pulse, 2018. [author site<\/a>]\u00a0 [publisher site<\/a>]\u00a0 Review copy and cover image courtesy of the publisher.<\/p>\n

My book talk<\/strong>: The path meticulously mapped-out by her Taiwanese-American parents has led Mei to MIT, but the 17 year old now must decide how far from their dreams she can venture in search of what she truly wants.<\/p>\n

She uses hand sanitizer constantly, the mere idea of cadavers makes her squeamish, and biology class bores her – why do her parents insist that she must become a doctor?<\/p>\n

When older brother Xing announced his engagement, Baba and Mama disowned him because Esther might not be able to give them grandsons, completely erased him from their lives – how can Mei tell them she’s dating a Japanese-American guy from California?<\/p>\n

Dancing set her apart from other Asian students applying to MIT, so her parents allowed it just until her acceptance letter arrived – why can’t she tell them what joy it brings her and that she’s teaching dance classes on weekends?<\/p>\n

Fast-tracked to college by her parents’ demands, Mei never dated in high school, never chose her own path – maybe with Darren’s support and affection, she can break away from their rigidly traditional expectations without breaking herself.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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